Oh Sweet Valentine…

Terri’s View: Valentine’s Day: a time to let the ones we love know how much we care. A time to show our appreciation for our significant others, to let them know how much they mean to us all year round. A time for love. A time for romance. A time for flowers. A time for chocolate.

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Terri’s View: Valentine’s Day: a time to let the ones we love know how much we care. A time to show our appreciation for our significant others, to let them know how much they mean to us all year round.  A time for love. A time for romance. A time for flowers. A time for chocolate.

Valentine’s Day is a rough one for me. (I feel like I say that about every holiday!) My husband knows this and even when I wasn’t watching my weight, he knew not to bring home chocolate. I told him not to – I knew I would just eat the whole thing. I’m a practical girl, I tell him not to buy me flowers either as they wilt in just a few days. I would much rather spend that money on a mani-pedi or new blouse. 

But even with hubbs not bringing chocolate home, it still finds its way into our house now that I have kids. Parties at school tend to lead to endless goodie bags filled with one of my favorite treats. I don’t need the fancy, high-end chocolate sold around this time of year - I am perfectly content with the cheap everyday stuff. Which means, what’s in the goodie bags is usually fine by me.

So, how do I make it through this romantic holiday without going totally overboard? Well first off Ed and I don’t really celebrate Valentine’s. That’s not to say that after 20 years of marriage we have lost our romance. As a matter of fact, each of us losing over 100 pounds has injected our marriage with plenty of romance. But what I mean is we don’t go crazy with gifts. If we’re lucky, my sister will watch the kids and we’ll splurge on a date night out and call it our V-day celebration.

But that’s the easy part, the hard part for me is not raiding the kids’ goodie bags leftover from school events. Usually I pick out a few things they like and hide the rest. It’s usually an “out of sight (hopefully) out of mind” kinda thing. I let the kids have a few and save some for dessert but if a day goes by and they don’t ask for it again, I just toss it. Yes, I admit, it’s weak of me not to be able to keep the candy around for as the occasional treat for them but I know my limitations. It may not bother me for couple of days and then I may have an emotional day or PMS and the bag would be gone with nothing left but some empty wrappers and a sugar-overloaded mama.

There have been many occasions where I have had to throw food out to resist temptation - mainly leftover desserts from parties and chocolate from kiddie parties. I feel bad and I try to give it away if I can but if I can’t – in the trash it goes. So this Valentine’s Day keep it about showing your loved one you care by offering a massage (OK, some jewelry probably wouldn’t hurt too) and leaving the chocolate on the shelf!

Blog written by Ed and Terri Masak
Ed and Terri have been married for almost 20 years. Together, they made the commitment to get healthy for each other and their 2...