Many of us have three thoughts about stress: it stinks, it stinks bad, or it stinks so bad that if you don’t get me a massage this instant, I’m gonna freak on this entire office.
In fact, most of us believe that you either have to eliminate it or live with it. But the truth is that stress management isn’t about eliminating all types of stress; after all, stress can be good for you. (The only time you aren’t stressed is when you’re 6-ft. under.) It’s actually all about regulation – turning the dials of your emotions so you can best handle what life tosses at you.
In evolutionary terms, stress is a good thing. It heightens all of our biological systems so that we can deal with an impending threat, be it an enemy or a natural disaster. The big difference between stress today and yesterday is that yesterday’s stress was fleeting. There were periods of high-intensity stress followed by low (or no) levels of it.
Today we’re drowning in a sea of stress, with wave after wave knocking us over. Those heightened biological reactions work in our favor for short periods, but when stress continues unabated, those biological reactions go awry, leading to a host of ultimate stress-enders, like heart attacks, cancer, and disabling accidents. If your stress is putting you at risk, challenge yourself to get healthier, happier by following this ultimate stress reduction plan.
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To ease into the first day, follow these 4 simple Day 1 rules: Start a gratitude journal and write in it for 5 minutes each day, even if you’re just jotting down 3 things for which you are grateful. People who stop and take note of what is right in their lives are more active, healthier and more resilient in times of stress.
Take 10 slow, deep conscious breaths this morning and evening.
Smile when you make eye contact with another person. It will make you BOTH feel better.
Before you created your stressors list, remember to spend 5 minutes today writing in your gratitude journal.
Create Your Stressors List: Today let’s identify some obvious and not-so-obvious sources of stress in your daily life. Big worry-inducers like the mortgage, family health problems, and work deadlines are probably top of mind for a lot of people. Other less obvious sources of stress and tension can plague you as well.
Naming the problem is the first step toward solving it! So what stresses you out? Today it’s time to pinpoint those smaller, yet still bothersome, sources of stress so you can begin to manage them mindfully.
Personal finances are one of the most common sources of stress. Don’t let it undermine your health and well-being! Take Real Age Financial Stress Quiz to find out:
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It’s no use talking about stress if you don’t take a look at your physical health. Your overall health, sleep patterns, and daily eating habits are major players that can influence your ability to manage stress. Don’t worry: you don’t have to tackle all of your health problems in one day, but take some time to decide which of your personal health areas need the most attention, and begin fixing them today.
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Waist Size: Suck in and measure your waist at your belly button. It should ideally be less than half your height – about 40 inches for men, 37 inches for women.
Blood Pressure: Ideal blood pressure is approximately 115/75. Do whatever is needed to get it there. If the systolic (top number) is 130 or above, or if your diastolic or second number is 85 or more, alert your doctor
Cholesterol: You want your LDL, or lousy cholesterol, to be less than 100. You want your HDL, or healthy cholesterol, to be greater than 50. Get your triglycerides below 100.
Resting Heart Rate: Your heart rate at rest is the key, and you can usually find this number on blood pressure monitors. Take your pulse BEFORE you get out of bed in the morning (with your blood pressure) and strive to exercise enough so your heart rate is as close to 60 (or below) as possible.
Blood Sugar (HG A1C): A simple finger stick will reveal your blood sugar levels. When your blood sugar is high, it's like scraping glass shards along the insides of your arteries – yes, it’s that bad. That's what those sugar molecules do inside of you.
Vitamin D: More Americans are deficient in vitamin D than any other vitamin. Vitamin D can help a person prevent cancer, heart disease, multiple sclerosis, diabetes, autoimmune ailments and thyroid problems. You can get enough through 15 minutes a day of sun exposure during the summer or a daily vitamin D supplement with 1,000 units. Take it with food as vitamin D needs fat to be absorbed.
C-Reactive Protein: Measuring C-reactive protein will indicate if your body is full of inflammation and irritation. If you've got gingivitis, prostatitis, vaginitis, or almost any other -itis, your C-reactive protein level will be high.
Thyroid Stimulating Hormone (TSH): If you have unexplained weight gain, your hair has changed or your libido's off, the #1 thing to check is thyroid stimulating hormone. It tells us whether your thyroid gland is functioning normally.
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Our personal space reflects our state of mind. We can’t control the entire world around us, but we can control the space we live in; we can make our home into a sanctuary, one that helps calm us at the end of a stressful day.
That extra clutter in your home may be weighing you down more than you think. If you had to step over piles of junk just to get to your computer, it's time to act. A bit more space can free your mind and boost your positive energy.
Here are some tips for creating a stress-free home:
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You cannot overestimate the importance of social connections in dealing with stress. The quality of your relationships influences the number of immune cells you have, and therefore affect your body’s ability to resist disease and cancer.
Anything that gets you together with other people on a regular basis -- community groups, volunteer organizations, athletic teams, or purely social events -- can all help decrease stress and make you feel younger.
Today, commit to being more social!
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Nurture one relationship by calling an old friend.
Stress destroys your sleep patterns, and a lack of sleep leads to more stress. It's a vicious cycle. Take the Sleep Health Assessment like the one found here to find out what's preventing you from getting a good night's sleep. This is one of the most important things you’ll do to take control of your stress.
Sleep hygiene refers to the habits and routines (or lack thereof) that you establish around bedtime. Good sleep hygiene choices, such as having a consistent bedtime and engaging in relaxing activities in the evening, improves the quality of your sleep and decreases stress levels. Poor sleep hygiene choices, such as watching television in bed, exercising too close to bedtime, or consuming alcohol or caffeine late in the evening, may hinder your ability to fall asleep and/or stay asleep.
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Bask in the commitment you’ve made to controlling your stress and reflect on everything you’ve done in just one week.
Make time for yourself: Find thirty minutes in today, just for you, that is "me time."
Try some relaxation exercises, like the self-massage:
This is a great little trick. By tensing and relaxing your muscles, you can give yourself a full body massage (well, as close as giving a massage to oneself can be) and release your stored physical stress. While sitting or lying down, concentrate only on tensing the muscles of your feet as much as you can. Then, after a few seconds, release the tension. Move up from your feet to each muscle group one at a time. Focus on your legs, stomach, back moving up to your neck, arms, face, and head. Take deep slow breaths as you do this. When you’re done, give yourself a few minutes to relax – and congratulate yourself for a terrific massage!
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You’ll be better at stress management by being “mindful”—that is, really paying attention to the present. Try the following techniques to help clear you mind and focus on the present.
Go on a news fast.
News is important, but often stressful. Taking one day a week to shun all news can do us good. If anything really important is happening, you’ll hear about it, but the peace and quiet can be good for your stress levels.
Yoga, yoga, yoga.
Clearly, we can't say it enough. Yoga could very well be your ultimate de-stress technique (and it's also a great physical exercise). It lowers blood pressure and heart rate, decreases stress hormones, and increases relaxation hormones like serotonin, dopamine, and endorphins. You can get the benefits of yoga in a single pose or in a full-fledged class. All in favor of downward dog, say ohm. Try the 20 minute Dr. Oz yoga routine
YOUR body Scan
Here’s how to do it: Focus on every part of your body, which will help you to relax:
Chi-gong
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Continue doing mindfulness exercises in the morning or before bed.
Exercise.
Simply put, physical activity is one of life’s greatest stress relievers. Stress causes our body to build up extra energy, preparing us for fight or flight and exercise burns energy and reduces our stress levels. Exercise metabolizes stress hormones in our blood and increases levels of our body’s built-in anti-anxiety hormones, making us feel calmer.
Do the Dr. Oz 20-Minute workout
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Continue doing mindfulness exercises in the morning or before bed.
Do physical activity in the morning or afternoon at least 3 times per week.
Choose Comfort Foods
If you just did a double-take, keep reading. We're not talking about macaroni and cheese or pizza. When we’re stressed we often reach for diet-busting goodies to soothe us. But these eating habits inevitably backfire. And alcohol can be even more insidious – it’s a wolfish stimulant in calm sheep's clothing.
Food can fight stress in several ways. Real comfort foods, like a bowl of warm oatmeal, actually boost levels of serotonin, a calming brain chemical. A nutritious diet can shore up the immune system and lower blood pressure.
Commit these stress-busting foods to memory and incorporate them into your daily menu.
Berries, any berries. Eat them one by one instead of M&Ms when the pressure's on. For those tough times when tension tightens your jaw, try rolling a frozen berry around in your mouth. And then another, and another. Since the carbs in berries turn to sugar very slowly, you won't have a blood-sugar crash. The bonus: They're a good source of vitamin C, which helps fight a jump in cortisol, a stress hormone.
Guacamole. If you're craving something creamy, grab some guac. Avocados are loaded with B vitamins, which stress quickly depletes and which your body needs in order to maintain nerves and brain cells. Plus, their creaminess comes from healthy fat. Scoop up the stuff with whole-grain baked chips -- crunching keeps you from gritting your teeth.
Mixed nuts.Just an ounce will do. Walnuts help replace those stress-depleted B vitamins, Brazil nuts give you a whopping amount of zinc (which is also drained by high anxiety), and almonds boost your E, which helps fight cellular damage linked to chronic stress. Buy nuts in the shell and think of it as multitasking: With every squeeze of the nutcracker, you're releasing a little tension. Pistachios can soften the impact stress hormones have on the body. Eating a handful of pistachios every day can lower blood pressure, so it won’t spike as high when that adrenaline rush comes.
Oranges. People who take 1,000 milligrams of C before giving a speech have lower levels of cortisol and lower blood pressures than those who don't. So lean back, take a deep breath, and concentrate on peeling a large orange. The 5-minute mindfulness break will ease your mind, and you'll get a bunch of C as well.
Asparagus. Each tender stalk is a source of folic acid, a natural mood lightener. Dip the spears in fat-free yogurt or sour cream for a hit of calcium with each bite.
Spinach is packed with magnesium, which helps regulate cortisol levels and tends to get depleted when we’re under pressure. A little more magnesium may help you avoid headaches and fatigue. One cup of spinach goes a long way toward replenishing magnesium stores.
Chai tea. A warm drink is a supersoother, and curling up with a cup of aromatic decaf chai tea (Tazo makes ready-to-brew bags) can make the whole evil day go away.
Dark chocolate. Okay, there's nothing in it that relieves stress, but when only chocolate will do, reach for the dark, sultry kind that's at least 70% cocoa. You figure if the antioxidant flavonoids in it are potent enough to fight cancer and heart disease, they've got to be able to temper tension's effects.
Complex Carbs. All carbs prompt the brain to make more serotonin. For a steady supply of this feel-good chemical, it’s best to eat complex carbs, which are digested more slowly. Good choices include whole-grain breakfast cereals, breads, and pastas, as well as old-fashioned oatmeal. Complex carbs can also help you feel balanced by stabilizing blood sugar levels.
Trout and salmon. Omega-3 fatty acids, found in fish like salmon and trout can protect your heart from surges in stress hormones. For a steady supply, aim to eat four ounces of fatty fish at least three times a week.
Raw Veggies. Crunchy raw vegetables can fight the effects of stress in a purely mechanical way. Munching celery or carrot sticks helps release a clenched jaw, and that can ward off tension headaches.
Milk. Another bedtime stress buster is warm skim milk. Maybe the calcium can reduce muscle spasms and soothe tension, as well as easing anxiety and mood swings linked to PMS.
Serotonin Increasers:
Bedtime Snack. Carbs at bedtime can speed the release of serotonin and help you sleep better. Heavy meals before bed can trigger heartburn, so stick to something light like toast and jam.
Drink Alcohol in Moderation
An occasional glass of wine can be a great way to unwind. Too much will affect your sleeping patterns, mood and can make you more irritable.
Herbal Supplements
There are many herbal supplements that claim to fight stress. One of the best studied is SAME, which has shown benefits for people with mild-to-moderate depression. Although more research is needed, the herb also appears to reduce symptoms of anxiety and PMS.
Write in your gratitude journal
Do mindfulness exercises in the morning or before bed.
Do exercise in the morning or afternoon at least 3 times per week.
Choose stress-busting foods.
Here’s some startling news: each year half of us will experience what’s known as a “major life event.” This is tough stuff: a loved one may be sick or die, you may lose your job, your marriage may fall apart. These are the hurdles in life that really define our stress levels. What should you do when you feel totally overwhelmed? What is there’s a problem or secret that’s just too difficult to discuss with your friends and family?
Today, you will seek professional help if you need to. This will be a major step in finally taking control of your stress. A therapist, psychologist, minister, counselor, or psychiatrist can provide guidance and insight and strategies for dealing with stress and emotional traumas.
More and more, we understand that the health of the mind and the health of the body are interrelated, so do not neglect one for the other.
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Do mindfulness exercises in the morning or before bed.
Do exercise in the morning or afternoon at least 3 times per week.
Choose stress-busting foods.
Embrace that homework assignment! Did you ever realize that school actually reduces your stress and makes you younger? Counterintuitive as that sounds, keeping your mind active helps keep your body young and relieves stress. People who are more educated tend to keep up with activities that make them younger. Mental activity is like muscular strength so that it diminishes with age if we do not use it. Education, either formal or informal, keeps your mind in shape and your stress levels in check.
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Taking a class in something you’re interested in, whether it’s philosophy, cooking, knitting or computers.
Go to a museum, start a new book, take a trip, or develop a new interest like playing a musical instrument. Creating lifetime learning doesn’t mean you have to love school.
There are many ways of stimulating your mind that don’t require getting grades. If you have an interest in something, explore it.
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Do mindfulness exercises in the morning or before bed.
Do exercise in the morning or afternoon at least 3 times per week.
Choose stress-busting foods.
Mantras are words or phrases with spiritual meaning and research shows that they can help you cope with a wide range of problems, including anxiety, stress from traffic and work, insomnia, and unwanted thoughts.
Mantras are an ancient and near-universal tradition. They are personal, portable, and a perfect stress-reduction technique for people who say they don't have time for stress-management techniques. But before choosing one, be clear on its purpose. Here are some possible reasons for choosing a mantra:
Here are some examples of mantras:
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Do mindfulness exercises in the morning or before bed.
Do exercise in the morning or afternoon at least 3 times per week.
Choose stress-busting foods.
Use your Mantra
A new best friend can play a major role in stress reduction. And while human friends are great, research shows there are huge benefits to having furry friends, too! Unless you are too busy to properly care for a cat or dog, a pet companion can provide excellent social support, stress relief and other health benefits—perhaps even more than people!
Congratulations! You are a graduate if the Dr. Oz Ultimate Stress Reduction Program! Now, just keep it going by integrating what you’ve learned these last two weeks into your daily life!
Write in your gratitude journal
Do mindfulness exercises in the morning or before bed.
Do exercise in the morning or afternoon at least 3 times per week.
Choose stress-busting foods.
Use your Mantra
Exercise your brain at least a few times a week with a good book, museum or class
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